A fantastic adventure into the unknown

Thank you so so much to Night Owl Romance for the review of Aztec Gold. This was such a fun story to research and write! I spent a lot of time exploring ancient Aztec myths and goddesses to create the demon in this sexy paranormal romance. I also loved sharing the intriguing culture of the Aztec people that you see as the heroine is on her search to find her missing (and presumed dead) lover. You can read Aztec Gold for free on Kindle Unlimited as well as several other books at https://amzn.to/3CU3PQn.

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This or That Manscaping

It’s been some time since I had any Man Candy on Monday so I thought it might be time for some! But today it’s a This or That and I’d love to hear from you what you like: A manscaped chest or not? Living on the Jersey Shore, I see my share of bare chests, especially in the summer. I guess that makes me a kind of expert! LOL! Most men I see are definitely manscaped and yet I do miss seeing a man with nice chest hair aka Tom Selleck in his early days. What about you? This or that?

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Beautiful Blooms in My Garden

My garden is doing well this year! I love seeing all the blooms as well as the growing vegetables on all the plants. Sharing some photos of all the flowers in my garden. This year I also have two small water features that use solar powered pumps as well as some lights at night. And no, those aren’t real fish just some resin ones for effect. LOL!

First Harvests of the Season

The garden is looking well and we’ve already pulled out some radishes, tomatoes, and a couple of chili peppers. Basil, parsley, and celery are doing great as are most of the herbs except for the cilantro. I’ve never had any luck with it and won’t plant it again. I’ll share some flowers of the garden tomorrow but for now, a photo of my first real harvest. Not sure I’ll eat the nasturtium flowers, but I’m loving them in the garden! So many blooms! I’ll definitely plant them again next year.
Caridad Garden

Anxiously Waiting for the 4th of July

One of my favorite holidays is the 4th of July. I love celebrating the birthday of this amazing Nation. It’s especially exciting now that I’m on the Jersey Shore where I can spend the day on the beach, go home for a nice BBQ, and then come back to the boardwalk to watch one of the many fireworks shows that is happening. Today I’m sharing some photos from past 4th of Julys.
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Wellness Tips

I love traveling and going to the conferences but it can be tough to keep up with my usual wellness routine. It makes me worry because I’m not getting in my steps and eating out which means added salt and oils that are not normally part of my diet. Also, who doesn’t like to indulge a little while on a vacation (or at a conference). The key is to try to do what you can and to enjoy in a reasonable way. I’m happy to say that I enjoyed my time and didn’t gain any weight while I was away. I did that by keeping to my four basic habits for having a healthier lifestyle, namely:

1. Being more active. Even if I couldn’t get my usual workout in, I tried to walk as much as I could and took the stairs instead of the elevator. As for my everyday routine, I try to get in no less than 10K steps and usually do well over 15K. That means an hour walk in the a.m. and a 45 minute elliptical workout in the afternoon.

2. Cut down on carbs. I’ve done no carb diets and find that there is an awful rebound once I eat carbs again so I just cut down and focus on healthier carbs, like potatoes, sweet potato and similar carbs. Very few bad carbs like from weight bread, pastries, and sugar (although I do sugar instead of fake sweeteners).

3. Eat more fruits and vegetables. This is key. The veggies help you fill up at meals and give you needed nutrients and fiber. Fruit can help satisfy your sweet tooth instead of bad carbs.

4. Be mindful. This applies to so many things! Stop and appreciate the things around you. I always breathe in the ocean air and lift my face to the sun while taking my morning walk, grateful that I can live in such a beautiful place. When you’re eating, eat mindfully and savor the taste, smell, and texture of what you’re eating. I used to gobble down a cookie in a bite or two, now I take several bites and let the flavors linger in my mouth so I appreciate what I’m eating.

I hope that helps if you’re on a wellness journey as I am. I had lost 50 pounds before the pandemic and gained back 40. Now I’ve lost 40 all together and am working on hitting that 50 number again and then another 30 if I can. I’d love to be back to my high school weight! P.S. – There are some healthy recipes in the Cook’s Treat section of my website.

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