I know it’s a tough time for lots of people thanks to the lockdown and the coronavirus. Some people may not have spent time with their moms. You may not be working. You may be stuck in your house or apartment. You may be gaining weight because you can’t go to the gym and you’re not eating the way you should. Especially since food can be a source of comfort at times. In the last month I’ve been struggling with losing weight, but I haven’t gained. That’s a plus even though I haven’t really budged the needle on the scale all that much. I’m trying to hang in there until things get back to normal or the “new normal.” I’m sending good thoughts your way to hang in there also. Things will change and they’ll change for the better! Hugs to you all!

#MotivationMonday-Easy Indoor Exercises to Keep You in Shape and Sane!
This month has been a wash for me in terms of losing weight for a number of reasons. First, the Y and the yoga studio where my sister teaches have been closed. Second, I tend to eat when I’m emotional and while I haven’t totally lost control, my control has slipped.
Aware of that, I’ve rounded up the assorted fitness gear I’ve collected over the years. Dumbbells. Medicine balls. Resistance bands. Yoga mat, block, and straps. I’ve started doing a 30 minutes workout every day in addition to a walk while maintaining social distance. That has been hard thanks to people who won’t use common sense and move away as you approach. So we proactively move away once we spot someone and I hope that won’t be the new normal.
But back to working out. If you’re not a workout equipment hoarder like me, there are some exercises you can do or if you are a member of a gym or studio, check out if they are offering online sessions. My sister’s studio, Yogasoul, has classes you can do remotely. Visit them at https://www.yogasoulnj.com/ to find out more.
If you don’t want to do that, down below are some equipment-free exercises you can do at home.
Last but not least, how about dancing like no one is watching? Jumping up and down in place for a few minutes to get that heart rate up and your metabolism fired? Stand up straight and reach up to the sky, trying to touch the clouds! Movement of any kind for starters. Remember, a body in motion stays in motion. It’s a basic law of physics for a reason and it applies to everything, including our bodies.
Squats
Thanks to HomeSquatGuide for this demo!
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Push-ups
Thanks to Jill Rodriquez for this demo of a modified push-up for those who don’t think they can do even one regular push-up! You can do this!
Assisted Lunge
Thanks to Paola Luma for this demo!
View this post on InstagramSemana temática: Equilíbrio . Exercício de hoje: Lunge . – Inicie utilizando um apoio (utilizei uma cadeira) – A medida que o exercício pareça fácil, retire o apoio e permaneça mais tempo no lunge. . Passo a passo: 1°) Leve a perna Direita dois passos grandes pra trás 2º) Mantenha o pé Direito apoiado somente pela ponta 3º) Desça o joelho Direito em direção ao chão (mas não permita que ele toque no chão) 4º) Mantenha o joelho e tornozelo Esquerdo em até 90º 5º) Repita 12 vezes 6º ) Mantenha a posição do lunge por 15 segundos. 7º) Volte a posição inicial 8º) Repita com a outra perna. . – Observe a sua postura. Mantenha uma leve contração abdominal, imagine que sua cabeça está sendo puxada por um fio em direção ao teto, mantenha ombros afastados das orelhas e peito aberto. . Deixe aqui nos comentários as suas dúvidas e como foi a experiência para você! Isso certamente irá me ajudar a ser mais assertiva no próximo post! . IMPORTANTE: esse post NÃO é uma prescrição de exercícios individualizada e NÃO substitui uma consulta. Não deixe de procurar o seu profissional de confiança! . #FicaEmCasa #SemFerrugem #MexeEsseCorpitcho #Fisioterapia #Physiotherapy #Pilates #PilatesClínico #Matwork #Lunge #JosephPilates #APPI #AppiPortugal #SemanaTematica #Equilíbrio #Hábito #Saúde
#MotivationMonday – Find a Fitness Buddy & Make it Fun!
Sorry about being absent last week, but I caught some kind of bug and it really laid me low. So low I wasn’t able to keep up with my regular exercise routine for most of the week. I was back at it a little yesterday with a slow walk on the treadmill which was about as much as I could handle. Hopefully, I’ll improve each day this week.
Today’s Motivation Monday is about keeping to some kind of fitness schedule and by fitness I mean “activity” in any way, shape or form. One of the things I’ve done in the last year in my desire for a new healthier lifestyle is to be more active. You may wonder why, but I’m sure you’ve heard that sitting is this generation’s smoking.
It’s just not healthy to not be mobile. So if you can help it, be more active. I’ve found that one way to accomplish that is to have a fitness buddy. In my case, it’s my hubby. We go to the Y together most days and keep each other honest. It’s rare that we both don’t want to go and on the weekends, we’ve both found things we like to do that are active. For him, it’s a long jog and for me, it’s a long walk.
My daughter and her new hubby have also paired up to be more active and have started their own fun way of doing it. They’ve set up challenges they undertake based on what happens in the latest Hallmark Christmas movie they are watching. For example, if one of the leads says “Christmas” they have to do 10 jumping jacks. Other actions lead to other exercises. Fun right?
That’s another important component of a new fitness regimen: Fun because if you don’t like what you’re doing you’re less likely to keep it up!
So, that’s my two cents on this Motivation Monday. I hope they help you on your journey to a healthier you!

Original Bikers Image by skeeze from Pixabay
#MotivationMonday – Getting Organized for a New Phase in Life
So there are big changes coming to my life and one of the things I’ve been tackling is getting organized for that new phase in my life. What does that involve?
Downsizing the house as well as all my stuff in the house. It’s been quite a chore so far to sort out what I’m keeping for our new smaller space. It has been especially difficult with the clothing since thanks to my weight ups-and-downs I have clothes in different sizes that I’ve kept. New Goal: Get rid of it.
Planning for next year’s writing. My June 2020 Hallmark book, SOUTH BEACH LOVE, is done and I’m just waiting on edits. #3 in the At the Shore series, NEVER A BRIDE, will be out in January 2020. I’ve got a mess of books in The Calling is Reborn series to re-release as well as writing FIGHT TO LOVE which many of you have requested. I’ve also got a new book to write for Sourcebooks and I’m excited about this one since my goal is to include many of my family’s stories about our escape from the communist dictatorship in Cuba and the liberty and success we have found in the United States. To keep all that in order, I’ve gotten out the calendar and a notebook to track what I’ll be doing, namely a new release every month, whether they be new stories, traditionally published, or indie re-releases.
Getting healthier. As you may know from visiting, I’m committed to losing weight and getting healthier. I’ve been good about keeping to a workout routine and also watching what I eat. Next year may prove to be a challenge as I’m going to have to change up that routine, but my goal is to adapt and stick to it.

Original Image by William Iven from Pixabay
#MotivationMonday – Forgiving Yourself
My wonderful friend Jayne came over this week to help me assemble some wedding favors and while we worked we talked about our respective struggles to lose weight. Jayne was an inspiration to me with all the weight she lost and when I mentioned a setback this week in my weight loss goals, she offered this pearl of wisdom she had learned from her weight loss group: You have to learn to forgive yourself when you suffer a setback like that.
Think about it. If someone does something you don’t like and you call them on it, but they apologize, you forgive them, right? You don’t beat them over the head over and over again about it (we hope).
So why do we do that to ourselves and not just about weight loss? We do it over our jobs, friendships, husbands, children, etc. We sometimes hold ourselves up to standards that are unreasonable and which may lead us to self-doubt or worse, self-loathing.
So today’s Motivation Monday is about being able to forgive yourself. If you’ve fallen down, dust yourself off, get up, and try again with a fresh slate thanks to forgiveness. I did and was able to get back on track!

#MotivationMonday – Inspiration and Perspiration
Wow, what a busy two weeks! I’ve been off to two different writing conferences and have come back charged up and inspired to get so many things done for the end of this year and next. Very exciting for me and hopefully for you as that will mean more stories, giveaways, and more.
The best part of both conferences was getting to meet new people and chatting with them about their writing and their lives. Such interesting people with such diverse backgrounds must add so much to the stories they tell. It was also great to get together with old friends and get to spend time with them since some of them are long-distance friends.
In addition to inspiration, there was also perspiration involved since I taught at the first conference and then had a number of meetings and signings at the second. All in all, however, I had a great time!

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#MotivationMonday – The “I Can Do This Now” Excitement
It’s been nearly two months since I started my lifestyle change. Better eating. Continuing to challenge myself with my workouts. The end result is 15.8 pounds down, more energy, and the ability to do something like this past Friday’s outing: A climb to the top of the Vessel in Hudson Yards and a walk along the High Line. It came out to a total of 4.25 miles for those two adventures. So exciting on so many levels. Although my fear of heights kicked in the step training I’ve been doing kept me moving up and down the maze that is the Vessel without noticing a thing. Not out-of-breath for the wrong reasons. Maybe breathless because of the views and the height. A wonderful night with my best bud and I am so grateful for the positive changes happening with my body. Today I’m sharing some photos from that adventure.


